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Your Happy List
- To start, give yourself 15 minutes to sit down and write a list of everything you can think of that makes you happy.
- Be sure not to censor yourself – this is just for you to see. Only write things that truly make you happy (not things that you think someone would want you to write or things that you think you should write).
- Write down both big picture and smaller, everyday things that bring you happiness. For example, on one line you might write a family member’s name and on the next your favorite guilty pleasure tv show.
- Get as specific as you can. For example, instead of writing your pet’s name – write something that they do that brings you joy.
Where Do YOU Fit In?
New Month – Fresh Start
It’s completely natural in winter for us to hunker down and take more time than we usually do to go within and really think about where we want our life to go. We tend to spend extra time journaling, pondering, and organizing (both our thoughts and feelings and also our material possessions). We declutter, make warm meals, and cozy up with our loved ones in the comfort of our homes. We build our own cocoons of comfort.
And now that March is here, we can start thinking about taking all that we have learned about ourselves through the winter and begin to emerge. Begin to break out of our comfort zone – begin to show the world our most authentic self. This is such a wonderful time full of so many possibilities!
Today you may want to take some time to think about if there is any part of you that wants to emerge. Is there any part of you who has been living in a comfortable place but perhaps wants to push the boundaries and risk a bit to live an even more authentic life?
It’s a beautiful day here in southern Oregon – a perfect time to realize that spring and new beginnings are just around the corner!
Journaling Within – Describe Yourself
Who Are You Living For?
And now think about how you want to live. The answers are always within us if we just take the time to listen.
As the answers come to you, write them down. And as you write them down, make sure that it is your authentic voice coming up with the answers. This is an exercise that you can keep coming back to with every part of your life – every decision, every action you make, every second of how you live your day.
Showing ourselves and the world who we really are can be a scary, vulnerable place. But it can also be an empowering place. You get to be you – fully you.
If we stay conscious and continue to examine each moment of how we live, we will learn more and more about ourselves and get closer to living our authentic life.
Now that’s worth living for!
What Do You Deserve?
It all comes down to our thoughts, our beliefs about ourselves, and our self worth.
To give an example – imagine you are looking for a life partner. All you have ever wanted in life is to find someone who loves you for you – who appreciates you – who cares about you – and who would give anything to be with you. You know you deserve this.
And yet…the partners you actually end up with are afraid of commitment, treat you horribly, don’t appreciate you, and don’t care about you.
How does this keep happening to you?
It happens because we attract to us what we think we deserve – not what we actually deserve.
In the example above, somewhere along the way you created a belief system about what you thought you were worth. And most likely this was an unconscious belief that started as a result of things you were told when you were young.
Once you become aware of your beliefs about your own self worth, you can begin to make changes. You can start saying affirmations letting yourself know that you are worth so much more than you are settling for. You can surround yourself with loving friends who build you up and love you unconditionally. You can learn to love yourself – possibly for the first time in your life.
And then you can start journaling about the person that you want to attract into your life – the person you know you deserve to be with.
Our thoughts and self worth attract the life we live. And this applies to relationships, work, money, friends – everything in our life!
Let’s all attract into our lives what we actually deserve – knowing that we are worth it.
What Are You Thinking?
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What’s Your Type?
Studying personality types has always been fascinating to me.
There are so many different ways that we can each react to a single situation – just based on how we view the world and how we are wired.
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The Enneagram system
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